How To Control Anger – Handle your anger once and for all by understanding its root cause, and using these techniques.
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Video Summary:
We get angry when someone or something violates our standards, even though we may be the only one who knows what the standard is. People who are angry are operating at a low level of consciousness. Almost nothing out in the world can justify an angry outburst — the problem is on the inside, not with the world.
Giving in to your anger doesn’t reduce or purge it, but actually reinforces it, forming a bad habit.
Sometimes you can talk yourself out of the anger for the minute. Remember that the person you’re judging so harshly never agreed to abide by your standards. Can you accept that their value system may be different than yours? Ask yourself if you’ve ever done the same thing that you’re now judging so harshly. Think of some possible scenarios why they may have done it.
Your anger arises from the disintegration of part of yourself. Your anger is caused by repressing or denying something within you. Your ego can’t deal with the contradiction of the standard you wish to enforce, when you can’t uphold it yourself. So you project blame onto someone who exhibits the same behavior. Once you realize what shortcoming is making your so judgmental and angry, you can work to change it.
THIS GUY REALLY NEEDS TO GET SOME HELP
People with anger issues getting angry to a video about confronting, and not simply narcotizing under the rug, whatever makes us angry. Great start. I myself trying my best and failing once, and again, and again… Awesome content. Thank you.
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I am not taking advice from someone who has not experience difficulty managing their behavior.
I get enraged. I know it's disgusting, but I think it's due to high stress. Just naturally I have high anxiety and stress. I want to fix it. But the whole idea is it's almost involuntarily.
I'm sure you've helped others with your other videos, but this one is just, ironically, enraging. You're like the school bully making fun of the people who play in the band all while never having picked up a musical instrument yourself. You're a real a**hole, man.
Hi Leo, this video is awesome. Please give advice on how to be free from the feeling of the need to take revenge when someone has wronged us?
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Great talk, many provocative points made here. Thanks!
In this video you called us LOSERS! So I'll let you know that I disliked this video AND ……. I'm ANGRY AT YOU! (not you the man in this video)
Bad advice
Your face us even annoying too.. you're not helping!!!!
yes. fuck you by get shit started with "i'm disgusted by people who got angry. " FCKKKKMMMM ytyou get fukcing disgusted
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I appreciate this video so much it has helped me today and I will rewatch it again tomorrow thank you for your advise
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Leo looks like a creepy Nasferatu…0:12 with the pedophile triangle. 2:23…useless garbage move along.
Thanks for that asshole. I have a lot of built up anger from PTSD, Trauma abuse and more..it developed over years and I never wanted it to form. Putting people down and calling them a loser for their issues is literally the opposite of what an angry person needs. Of what ANYONE needs really. So… Passive aggressive much? I say HELL YES. Be nicer and more gentle dude. You're lucky I have a spunky attitude..some poor other bastard would probably be dead from this. (And I mean, their heart shot out.)
Labeling anger rages as disgusting, does not get to the root of the anger but further shames and shows your inexperience on the subject.
anyone who know the anger beast, i got help 10 years ago and i still lose it, it just never goes away. i respect this guys opinion, i have been trying my damn guts out to be better. watching my father smash my mother and stab her were not easy things to grow up with
You’ve NEVER experienced anger “supposedly”, so how you could you ever know how it starts, where it’s comes from? Not to mention we people with a lack of emotional control comes to you for help and you insult us, no THATS disgusting. You have hatred in your heart for no reason
I'm going to do Leo a big favour. He's never really experienced anger so I'm going to do things that will make him extremely angry. Whatever it takes.
This guy starts out his video putting down people who deal with anger issues saying they are disgusting? Wtf?
Total BS